It is possible for someone to consciously send negative energy to someone else if they are very powerful, congruent, and willing to accept the intense negative karma that’s going to go along with it. If the person receiving the “curse” is not strong then they are a sitting duck. If it is a curse, then you need to do 5 different things — all of which require perfectionism and your full concentration:
In order to remove the curse from your entire family– you have to do remove it from everyone.
1. Call on your soul protectors and guides to help protect you and lead you as you remove the curse. They could be; angels, God or Goddesses, Deities, the souls of deceased ancestors that help you. You know who to call because when ever you are in a crises or have a question you internally ask them. Ask their help to become a positive person and remove unnecessary negativity from the world and especially in your life.
2. You need to raise your vibration as high as possible to a state of love, hope,joy and gratitude. Once you get into the courage level it’s much harder for negativity and curses to affect you. And once you get to love, joy, compassion, and gratitude… the negative intentions bounce off you like you’re shielded. One of the best ways to protect yourself from conscious negative entities is to simply raise your level of consciousness.
Becoming a more conscious being of the light is the best defense against the conscious beings of the dark.
3. You must ask your protector/guide (see #1) to inform the person who placed the curse that you will be removing the curse from your family and her family (she also cursed her family when she placed the curse). Also inform her that you with the help of your protector and guides will be doing this now. You are releasing all those who have been cursed by her and who have been cursed by you and your family. There will be no more curses because God (or your Goddess, guide, angel, guardian spirit) has enough compassion and wisdom to resolve the worries of man, and this is in his hands for his judgement. Therefore the curse is lifted from curser and all those (she) effected negatively, including your grandmother…”, then individually name all those who have been cursed in your family, including yourself.
4. It can be helpful to picture all the people who have been affected by this curse. And imagine them one by one having blighted hearts to having pure beautiful hearts. Imagine how unburdened and happy as they transform.
5. This is followed up by your choosing a path to be committed and active in, so that will help you remain mindful of compassion and wisdom, just to name a few; certain Christian traditions that are humanitarian like Roman Catholic, Episcopalian, Unitarian. Equally, you can find this emphasis on compassion and wisdom in Buddhism,Wicca, and Shamanism too. It is not limited to these religions or any spiritual path. There are four things that you need to find and at least once a week participate in to completely end this curse; compassion, wisdom, commitment and activism.
Even if you just want to start a yahoo group about volunteering and living a positive life it will have the same result of dissolving the negative with the positive. The main thing is doing this with solemn consistency and with joy.
There could be one of two things going on here besides a curse:
The other explanation drops the idea of someone trying to harm and instead it could be that there is a subconscious desire to sabotage with in your family. If your family has suffered a lot, then you may be unintentionally harming yourselves. If this is the reason skip right to 5.
The other thing that might be going on is genetic depression or another genetic ailment (like addiction) that is introducing negativity into all of your lives. If so, then get help to fix that right away. That can be fixed with better results than negativity and curses because the remedy is completely with in your control and the answers are verified with science.